When the British came to Ibo land for instance at the beginning of the 20th century and defeated the men in pitched battles in different places and set up their administrations the men surrendered. And it was the women who led the first revolt.
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You accept failure as a possible outcome of some of the experiments. If you don't get failures you're not pushing hard enough on the objectives.