Gentleness doesn't get work done unless you happen to be a hen laying eggs.
A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.
My work always tried to unite the true with the beautiful but when I had to...
I know a lot of people fear the rougher types who might be at a state school but surely it is better to know who they are and how to deal with them than for that kind of child to appear as a completely different species to yours.