I really feel like life will dictate itself. You should allow it to unfold as naturally as possible. Just go with the flow. When you're really desperate you say a few prayers and hope for the best. That's the way I've always lived my life.
In a way we women take on more than we need to sometimes.
Democracy functions best when we have an active citizenry.
I was class mom at the preschool one year and I was pretty much asked not to do that again!