My ace in the hole as a human being used to be my capacity for remembering birthdays. I worked at it. Whenever I made a new friend I made a point of finding out his or her birthday early on and I would record it in my Filofax calendar.
I don't turn to greeting cards for wisdom and advice but they are a fine...
I sing a little bit. I got a guitar for my 16th birthday.
No employer is going to hire robustly until they know what the health care cost is going to be.