We're still living with the old paradigm of age as an arch. That's the old metaphor: You're born you peak at midlife and decline into decrepitude.
One part of wisdom is knowing what you don't need anymore and letting it go.
The two most misused words in the entire English vocabulary are love and...
You don't repair that relationship by sitting down and talking about trust or making promises. Actually what rebuilds it is living it and doing things differently - and I think that is what is going to make the difference.