Many highly intelligent people are poor thinkers. Many people of average intelligence are skilled thinkers. The power of a car is separate from the way the car is driven.
Argument is meant to reveal the truth not to create it.
I wanted to end my life so bad and was in my car ready to go down that ramp...
Patience can't be acquired overnight. It is just like building up a muscle. Every day you need to work on it.