I don't know if you can change things but it's a drop in the ocean.
I never wanted to become an actress because I'd read great literature or seen...
You do have to change things as warfare changes.
I'm lucky. The best possible place in the world for training is Addis Ababa so I am home all the time except when I am racing. I like to be there near my family my kids also the real estate business I run with my wife.