Each child is an adventure into a better life - an opportunity to change the old pattern and make it new.
Today we know that World War II began not in 1939 or 1941 but in the 1920's...
You do have to change things as warfare changes.
I was sent to a finishing school which didn't last long when mother found out how badly chaperoned we were. Then I 'came out' before going to a domestic science school.