Everyone takes pause at 40. It's the age you have to assess everything in your life. It's the fictitious marker that's always coming up when you're young. The world really does look at you to kind of have it together by 40 and be successful by 40. Whatever success means.
I don't think balance is something you get from someone else it's something women have to find from within. For me finding balance is still a work in progress.
