In my relationship I was giving myself away to make the relationship better but in actuality wasn't doing better by doing that. I became less of a man.
Poetry even when apparently most fantastic is always a revolt against artifice a revolt in a sense against actuality.
It is in the very nature of things human that every act that has once made its appearance and has been recorded in the history of mankind stays with mankind as a potentiality long after its actuality has become a thing of the past.
It's good for everyone to understand that they are to love their enemies simply because your enemies show you things about yourself you need to change. So in actuality enemies are friends in reverse.