I have two daughters and I have done everything in my power to prevent them from assimilating even being aware of my idiocy about my weight.
In addition to the research I enjoyed learning French and assimilating the culture of another country.
I was kicked out of school because of my attitude. I was not assimilating. So I went to work taking any jobs I could get.
Your ability to communicate is an important tool in your pursuit of your goals whether it is with your family your co-workers or your clients and customers.