The simplest of women are wonderful liars who can extricate themselves from the most difficult dilemmas with a skill bordering on genius.
Sometimes it takes ten seconds to see some humor in your dilemmas sometimes ten years.
Music should probably provide answers in terms of lyrical content and giving people a sense of togetherness and oneness as opposed to being alone in their thoughts and dilemmas or regrets or happiness or whatever.
I have no idea what I'm going to say when I stand up to give a toast. But I do know that anything I say I find funny.