The guys I date always want to test my strength and wrestle around. By the end they're drenched in sweat.
I do a one-hour workout called Drenched a cardio-boxing fitness routine Monday through Friday. There are usually between twenty-five and fifty people there - everyone from stay-at-home moms and professional martial artists to teenagers and seniors. They play great dance music. When I can I take two classes back-to-back.
You have to get along with people but you also have to recognize that the strength of a team is different people with different perspectives and different personalities.