A man can be drawn across the room with the simplicity of a smile. That's why your pearly whites should always be straight and shiny. I think most of my clients are drawn to a fun flirty nature in a woman. The problem is most women do not often feel fun and flirty.
All people desire what they believe will make them happy. If a person is not full of desire for God we can only conclude that he is engaged with another happiness.