I'm a big techno fan. I love that thumping kick drum. We heard a version of 'Lost in Love' and it was thrash metal. It sounded cool!
I think the best thing I can do is to be a distraction. A husband lives and breathes his work all day long. If he comes home to more table thumping how can the poor man ever relax?
The best activities for your health are pumping and humping.
You may tell a man thou art a fiend but not your nose wants blowing to him alone who can bear a thing of that kind you may tell all.