Jealousy - that jumble of secret worship and ostensible aversion.
Humor is perhaps a sense of intellectual perspective: an awareness that some things are really important others not and that the two kinds are most oddly jumbled in everyday affairs.
God gave women intuition and femininity. Used properly the combination easily jumbles the brain of any man I've ever met.
You have a good many little gifts and virtues but there is no need of parading them for conceit spoils the finest genius. There is not much danger that real talent or goodness will be overlooked long and the great charm of all power is modesty.