The essential element in personal magnetism is a consuming sincerity - an overwhelming faith in the importance of the work one has to do.
As for the forces electromagnetism and gravity we experience in everyday life. But the weak and strong forces are beyond our ordinary experience. So in physics lots of the basic building blocks take 20th- or perhaps 21st-century equipment to explore.
My doctor told me to stop having intimate dinners for four. Unless there are three other people.