It is not all bad this getting old ripening. After the fruit has got its growth it should juice up and mellow. God forbid I should live long enough to ferment and rot and fall to the ground in a squash.
Wishing to be friends is quick work but friendship is a slow ripening fruit.
To 'choose' dogma and faith over doubt and experience is to throw out the ripening vintage and to reach greedily for the Kool-Aid.
Age is not all decay it is the ripening the swelling of the fresh life within that withers and bursts the husk.
I've been to war and it's not easy to kill. It's bloody and messy and totally horrifying and the consequences are serious.