Man is made or unmade by himself. By the right choice he ascends. As a being of power intelligence and love and the lord of his own thoughts he holds the key to every situation.
A man would prefer to come home to an unmade bed and a happy woman than to a neatly made bed and an angry woman.
I try to make my bed every day for mental health. Coming home to an unmade bed or a room with clothes all over will depress me.
To live in this world you must be able to do three things: to love what is mortal to hold it against your bones knowing your own life depends on it and when the time comes to let it go to let it go.