It is only partly true that religion does more harm than good in society. The community makes God into the image it wants vengeful or milky sweet or scrupulously just and so on.
Man is by nature competitive combative ambitious jealous envious and vengeful.
Be patient and understanding. Life is too short to be vengeful or malicious.
Great indebtedness does not make men grateful but vengeful and if a little charity is not forgotten it turns into a gnawing worm.
Language is a more recent technology. Your body language your eyes your energy will come through to your audience before you even start speaking.